so i have a friend who is more like a sister to me than my own most times is conflicted with a tough choice in life and i can't really tell her what to do but i can listen and tell her what i know, which isn't much. i don't want to tell her what to do because i don't want to be responsible for making her choices in life but want to tell her what i think. which is something i think a best friend should do.

Her Problem:

shes been in a relationship with a guy for about 10 yrs. and she's been unhappy for a long time but it's a fairly stable relationship they have built a house and made a nice life together but he isn't there emotionally for her, isn't romantic doesn't think of her first or what she wants or needs it's turned basically into a old married couple and they aren't married or old. it's very routine. she's been thinking it's time to get out and now she's kind of met someone and is really thinking now that it's time to move on.

i think she should move on if it's really what she wants not for some dude that may last or not you should be somewhere you don't want to be. but is the problem with her now mate just time slipping by and not realizing that people change and he hasn't changed with her. should she keep trying? i don't know what to tell her just that she has to follow her heart and do what she thinks is right.which is the same advice she has given me many times over.

i love her and want her to be happy.....